Monday, August 5, 2019

Hey there,
It's been a while.
How've you been?
Good?
Good.
Me?
I'm ok.
Been pretty busy.


Ok let's talk. The topic I've had on my mind is friends. More specifically, my friends.

It feels like all my life, I've been surrounded by "Yes Men" friends. Guys and gals that I met and we either agree about everything or we are just too afriad to tell the other what we actually think because we have issues and need friends. I can't, at this moment, think of anything my basic friend group disagrees on. And this kinda bugs me. Now you probably think I should be grateful that my friends get along and stuff and I am glad that they do for the most part, but I also feel like people should disagree sometimes. That way we know where everyone stands on a topic and we dont just bottle up feelings of anger which could then turn into ugly arguements about silly things. Like, if you dont like the way "Greg" talks or something then... please say something. Dont leave me hanging here bud.
I guess what got me started thinking about this is a girl I met at a campout. We were both bored and hot and we just started talking to each other. Then our moms started talking and we just started to hang out. She's awesome and I wouldnt trade our friendship for anything. But she and I disagree on stuff. Frequently. But there arent any nasty arguements, we just share our points of view on the topic and playfully make fun of each other for their views on which superhero is the best. Or which one of our friends is going to end up in jail first.

I dont know what Im saying. I guess I just think you should disagree with your friends out loud sometimes. Its good to say your views in front of someone else other then your mirror.
You may just find out you were wrong.

Godspeed ladies and gents

Myriad